Saturday, July 17, 2010

Being SiNGLE rocks! :)



My ideal guy isn't too specific yet, he just has to be nice, outgoing and funny. I guess I'm still trying to decide what I like and dislike in guys, and I'm not sure I can do that if I'm tied down to one person. Relationship come with limitations. You have to compromise, you have to control your moods, you have to ask for permission from each other before you make a major decisions, and you have all these little occasions like monthsaries that sometimes feel like an obligation instead of something you do out of love. Right now, I'm preoccupied with my studies and I need room to understand myself better and get to know who I am as a person. I need freedom to have my own mistakes, learn my own lessons, and steer myself towards the direction I want to take. Actually, I think being single is fun because I can enjoy being young. I probably sound like someone who just wants to live in the moment without considering the future, but someday, when I finally meet the right guy for me, I will be ready to commit. Because by then, giving up being single will no longer feel like giving up my freedom, but giving in to something worthwhile.

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